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General Discussion / Re: Food to cope...
« on: May 20, 2012, 11:11:46 PM »
You have received a lot of excellent advice (and you always will) here. Something that I would like to share regarding what you call "comfort" eating. I too went thru stages of depression and binge eating. Like you, thinking food was my comfort only to realize after I had eaten that whole bag of chips or 3 plates of dinner food; that I was more depressed. Depressed because I didn't like myself eating all that food, I felt worthless and my self esteem was very low. Then you think everyone else feels the same way about you, thus a vicious cycle because the next day it was easy to do again. Of course I've tried so many different ways to control my weight. Being 58 years old I always said that I wanted to be in good shape at 60 and be able to enjoy life. Wellllll...I'm really close to my age goal and half way to my FTS goal. Not until FTS did I find out and realize that even though I am not a diagnosed diabetic I was well on my way because of my sugar and carb addiction. Now I can say no to foods that I can't and won't eat. I am so thankful for me, my life, my family and all the wonderful things that have come my way. I was especially moved by your following comment, remind yourself daily of your blessings. Make it a goal every day to find something to replace the wrong foods you are eating, learn something new each day, add another reason to be thankful for your life, celebrate that breathe of air you are given each morning and look in the mirror and say "I love you!"
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and as for things I'm thankful for : my wonderful supportive boyfriend, my three wonderful dogs, the new house we just bought, and the deck I'm going to spend considerable amounts of time sunning myself in this warm weather . I can't thank everyone enough for their positive outlook, you people, this whole community is a blessing.