Im so sorry that I am in the slumps but

[Alex Cruz]

I wanted to share that I received a call from my ex MIL who is dear to me.. It appears that my ex may have had some kind nervous breakdown late last night that caused him to be rushed to the hospital and he is still there. He was talking like he was delusional and was not coherent at all. His father had to carry him over his shoulder because his body became somewhat rigor (not sure if I am using the right word).. I dislike him but I do not wish him ill. we have chosen not to tell my daughter to avoid her becoming any more stressed than she already is. It appears that the stress of our situation which was induced greatly because of his wife wanting total control set him over the edge. We (his family and I) have been saying for a while now that she is going to destroy him.. I am very saddened because even though he (they)have put me through HELL and have caused me to become emotionally drained, he is still my daughter's father and he also has another child.. I kindly ask that you pray for him to recover and that he gets well so he can return to his family and we can move on our own separate ways.   Thank you all for being such amazing and beautiful people. It truly touches my heart to knwo that there are kind souls that are there for you even though you never met..

[marylepera]

Alex,

So sorry to read all that, and to see how upset you truly are.  Please know that I will pray for him, but for you as well.  It's not easy dealing with people and problems, but I guess my Mom is right when she says that God doesn't give us anything he doesn't think we can handle.  God knows you are strong and will be able to take care of your daughter and any upsetting feelings she may have from her dad being sick.

God bless you, and keep your head up.  We are all here for you!

Mary

[KFAITH]

Alex I just sent up a prayer for you and the x and the families. Praying it will all work out for you all and for the kids sake, may there be peace and health to all of you and a happy future .

[Maddysmom]

We are always here for you Alex.  I'll be praying for you and both families.   Brighter days are coming!   

[mouseissue]

Alex,

I'm praying for you and your ex.

He needs emotional help as soon as possible.
Trust that the Lord will take care of him (and you, and your family)... because He will!!!

Tony

BTW... There's a very good chance we will meet on the other side of the River of Life.
It will truly be a joyous occasion!

[Maddysmom]

Tony, I just love reading all your posts!  Count ME in on that meeting on the other side of the river!  Already got my reservations made sure.  

[umpa]

I am so sorry Alex You are in our thoughts and prayers

[Alex Cruz]

Thank you all.. My boss told me that I shouldnt waste my energy on him and I think she is wrong. Im not looking to be friends with them but I dont ever wish bad on anyone. We are all humans that have emotions. Though very trying times, this unfortunate event has brought some light. My daughter found out and of course was devasted because she has been estranged from him since the beginning of the year. She felt such guilt and I reassured her that she is a child and not the guilty party. I also told her that he needs her and that she should put the past aside (easier said than done) and just focus on the present. To fill his heart with much needed love because I feel that would help him heal. I even took a step further and call his current wife and told her that though I wasnt looking to be friends, to rest assure that they dont need to worry about any further actions from me. That we both are entitled to live a peaceful and happy live with our families. She agreed. My Vicky is suppose to see him today. She is going with her grandparents since she is a bit scare and me too.  Vicky says that when she talked to her dad, that for the first time in a very long time, he sounded like his good old self..  I thank you all for the thoughts.. I think part of me has started healing too and that has helped me.. I look fwd to church today.. God Bless you all and thank you for hearing the venting and cries...

[Doug Varrieur]

My dear Alex...asking for prayers for a man who has wronged you so much this past year speaks volumes about your character. You truly are wonderful. My prayers will go out for you and your daughter. 

[umpa]

I am so proud of you Alex You are a very strong woman