I know it's tough, I was that really large women, pouring myself into a booth at a restaurant and trying to look happy. I would have LOVED to know about something like FTS years ago. I wasted 20 years being overweight, trying not to eat but really just eating carbs thinking I was being healthy and getting bigger. I see these women and think that maybe if I just talked to them I could help them. My life has changed so drastically and it has been so easy that I don't want another person to have to live like that again. I keep thinking if I catch them alone I could talk to them, maybe just let them know about FTS. I have told all my overweight friends, but as you know it only works if they really want it to. Maybe I should get a shirt or a button. All good ideas...but there has to be a way to let people know without having them feel insulted or like I'm selling something. It is just too hard to keep this secret when I know they could all be feeling as good as I do.