Hello Pamsway, welcome to the family
The best advice that I can give you follows;
#1- Clear out your house, get rid of ALL the foods and beverages that will throw you of course. Don't save them or a rainy day you'll never need them again. Take them to a food bank.
#2- Follow the program, keep those net carbs less than 20 per day. If you have questions about how to read labels ask them here..at the forum and we'll get you straight.
#3- Don't be in a hurry, this isn't a race or a diet..it's a lifestyle change that you'll embrace and enjoy forever. I promise you the weight will come off.
#4- Don't get scale crazy...it WILL drive you nuts. Weigh in and write down your beginning weight then stay off the scale for a full week. Pick a weigh in day early in the morning...after you know what
#5- Get in touch with your bodies true hunger signals and only eat when you are truly hungry watching portion control along the way.