You are correct.But I think its how you raise your kids.I was taught to help others and be kind.Bullying was never allowed being from a military family.I see the bullying now ,kids committing suicide and I say where are the parents and teachers??Why is this allowed?
In this era, we see "absentee" parenting due to our culture and the relentless attack on the family.
That is why this is allowed.
The family unit is the foundation of any culture.
And without a good foundation, any structure will have major problems.
What the parents feed their children's minds, sooner or later comes back as attitudes and behaviors.
Children raised well are much less likely to exhibit poor choices.
They're taught which way to go (and not go) in various real life situations.
If the children are not given good compasses at home, with very few exceptions, they're likely not to get them at school either.