Hi, Sunshine!
I agree that you should refrain from weighing yourself too often.
Since our weight will normally go up and down during
weight loss,
the "number" on the scale can effect our mood and rattle confidence.
The concept that one pound of anything weighed more than one pound of something else is because 1 POUND of one thing weighs EXACTLY the same 1 POUND of another thing.
1 pound = 1 pound.
A pound of apples weigh exactly the same as a pound of oranges.
In fact, you'll have exactly 2 pounds of apples and oranges.
Speaking of apples and oranges...
Although it's true that 1 POUND of fat weighs exactly the same as 1 POUND of muscle, the false analogy "Muscle does not weigh more than fat, any more than lead weighs more than feathers." has NOTHING to do with which of these weighs more by VOLUME.
Muscle weighs more due to its molecular density relative to fat.
So 1 cubic inch of muscle weighs more than 1 cubic inch of fat.
Therefore, the same volume (amount) of muscle weighs more than the equivalent amount of fat.
To demonstrate this, if you take 1 cubic inch of fat and 1 cubic inch of lean muscle and drop them into water,
the fat (being lighter than water) will float, where the lean muscle (being heavier than water) will sink.
This is why we should measure ourselves regularly and notice our clothing fit.
Because 1 pound of muscle = 1 pound of fat even though you are skinner!
I hope that clears up the confusion for you.
Tony